What a terrifying, yet beautiful and necessary thing it is to have an older man look you in the face
expose your weakness
and nurture you to life.
If enough people say you’re wise, you really begin to believe it,
Forget that you’re only 20-something and still learning,
That you don’t have to be so serious,
That there’s no need pretending you’re holding everything together,
Or that anyone does.
“Man, please. His life is a train wreck just like yours.”
That losing things is okay, and that anything we give up will be restored ten-fold.
It takes a man who lived through a divorce,
stage 4 cancer,
and losing a 6 figure salary saying
“I lost everything and it was the best time of my life.”
To make you understand that you can live past this moment.
The only thing between you and growth is knowing this:
There is beauty waiting to be born from your brokenness.
If you don’t eventually lose your
They will eventually lose you.
There’s only one thing we should completely put our hope in:
“I lost everything and it was the best time of my life. I was finally open to hearing God.”
I’ve got all I need.
I’ve just gotta keep listening.